There are some people who take advantage of those around them and dont reward them for it at all….
Has anyone you looked up to ever used you to run chores like a house help over a period of time and did not reward you for it? Did they make you think you would get something but in the end you had to move on after it was clear that you were being used?
Let us discuss house helps in general…
How is it going presently with the house help you have? Is this house help male or female? Young or old?
Are you suspecting your spouse and the house help?
Has the house help become like family and no one even knows they are the house help?
Did the last house help do something so terrible that you made up your mind never to get house helps again?
Is the last house help your husbands baby mama?